This morning I attended the funeral of a 7 year old boy named Mamba. His life, of course, was way too short. His death was tragic: killed by his step-father who then also took his own life.
Many of our staff, who knew Mamba well, have been deeply involved in all of this from the beginning. When it was discovered Mamba was missing, they were out looking for him. When they found the step-father, they tried to rush him to the clinic, only to have him die in the car. While the mother and grandmother were waiting at home for word on what had happened, they were waiting with them. Once Mamba was found, one of them had to identify the body. They explained to all the children at the Care Point what had happened to their friend. They organized food. They organized transportation. They planned and led the night vigil and funeral service from beginning to end. I'm so proud to be a partner in ministry with all of them...they have been phenomenal through all this, they have led and comforted beautifully, and I'm certain they have been light and love to this family and community in a very deep way.
During the last week I heard someone say, "What a waste." I understand that thought. I'm pretty sure I had the same one. But as I think about it now, that is not a phrase I think anyone would want to have associated with Mamba. His death was senseless, and cruel, but I am so thankful God will not waste this!!
Maybe parents will decide to cherish time with their children more because they've seen once again how quickly they can be taken away? Maybe more people will decide to become advocates for vulnerable children because of hearing Mamba's story? Maybe those little boys standing by the grave this morning will decide to be heroes for their future families...protectors and providers...not destroyers?! I know God brought joy to many through Mamba's life, and I think he plans to do great things through his death. And while we're watching God's plans unfold down here, as many have already said, we can picture Mamba now, bringing and experiencing joy to the fullest in the presence of the Lord.