A House for Jabulile

April 22, 2010 | by Adventures in Missions | 10 Comments | Views 0

Sunday after church we visited Jabulile’s house. Jabulile has been part of Timbali Crafts since the beginning. She was abandoned 6 years ago when her husband decided to take a 2nd wife and she now lives by herself on a small piece of land in the rural area where AIM works. When Jabulile first started living on the land (technically owned by her husband but culturally he has to allow the 1^st wife to live on his land) it was still overgrown with trees, brush, etc. Jabulile cleared the land herself, and was able to piece together a small house  made from sticks, mud, cardboard and some scraps of corrugated metal. It is literally falling down. Jabulile can’t even sleep in her house at night for fear of what might happen if a strong wind came up or if someone broke in. Every night she sleeps at her friend Juliet’s house (another Timbali woman) down the road.

 

We went to Jabulile’s house to see her home in hopes that we can start making plans to build her a new house. She’s told me before that she has purchased some supplies for the house, but I was so surprised to see the piles of concrete blocks stacked around her house. For three years Jabulile has been saving money from what she receives from her sewing for Timbali Crafts and she has been able to purchase 600 blocks-half of what is needed to build a small two room home (w/out water or electric). What a picture of patience and perseverance. We’re hoping that now we can come alongside Jabulile and provide the rest of what she needs to get a new home. Pastor Walter (the main Pastor AIM works with in that area of Swaziland) was with us and said that the men from their church could volunteer their time to build, if we could help finish buying the supplies. Just that morning in his sermon he had said, “If you see something that needs to be done, do it.” “Now we will put it into practice,” he said. I just talked to Walter again today, and he said the men of the church have already started digging the foundation of the house.

 

 

The estimated cost for buying the rest of the materials for Jabulile’s house is $1500. If you’d like to donate toward the cost of building a house for Jabulile, follow this link: https://www.adventures.org/give/donate.asp?giveto=swazi&multi=
(Choose Swazi Craft Co-op in the drop down menu, and put Jabulile’s house in the comment section)

Juliet was also with us during our visit. What was so beautiful to me was seeing how excited Juliet was for Jabulile. Juliet has her own struggles. Her husband, who had also abandoned her several years ago for another woman, died and left her to pay for all of the burial and funeral expenses. There was a legal battle over which woman would receive the husband’s death benefit from his employer. Juliet was homebound for several months for the obligatory “time or mourning” until the matter was settled and the husband could be buried. Finally, Juliet received the death benefit and was able to pay for the burial and funeral, and build herself a new house! Juliet has seen the Lord sustain her and provide, and now she is rejoicing in hope with her friend.

So many of the Timbali women have stories similar to Jabulile’s and Juliet’s. Another woman has had 4 family members pass away since the beginning of the year. Another talked with me about the anger she struggles with because her husband has at least 7 children with other women, two of which have been abandoned by their mother and are now living in her home and she is now their care giver. These situations are almost unimaginable to me, but pretty much the norm for women here. These ladies are of course, notperfect, but I’m always amazed at the way these ladies persevere, even smile in the midst of hardships, and serve others everyday. Please keep praying that God would be their source of strength and encouragement!!

Ellie and Easter

I always have to end w/ an Ellie story…

Easter has come and gone for most, but Ellie is still talking about it. This other morning before school I heard her telling a story to all of her dolls and stuffed animals she had lined up in her room, “…and Mary was looking for Jesus (in the tomb) and Jesus said, ‘Here I am! I’m all better.’ Jesus is Alive! Yeah Jesus!” The Saturday before Easter I turned on the TV and “The Jesus Film” was playing. It was a scene from the movie showing Jesus in the Temple. (For those of you who are fans of the movie “Elf,” I’ll compare her reaction to seeing Jesus on TV to the scene where Buddy here’s that Santa will be visiting Gimble’s Department Store.) Ellie gasped, pointed at the TV, and yelled, “MOM IT’S JESUS!! I LOVE JESUS! YEAH JESUS!” These are some of my favorite Ellie stories lately. I hope Ellie keeps up the Easter talk, b/c in a place with so much death, Easter is a great reminder of LIFE and all that Jesus represents to those of us who love Him and know His salvation!

 

 

This is Ellie on Easter morning with a little bed-head. 🙂

 

That’s all for now!

10 responses to “A House for Jabulile”

1. LOVE THIS UPDATE! What an awesome story (and the one of Ellie too, she is such a cutie!). Thanks for keeping us updated on good news happening in Swaziland! Praying God continues to reveal Himself to those precious women!

2. Julie,
   Thank you for being the story-teller to stories of people we otherwise would never know. Thank you for standing in the gap. Tell Jabulile that a “Jabu” (that was my Siswati name) in the States is praying for her.

   Love the Ellie stories, keep them coming – yay, Jesus!

3. I love hearing these stories, Julie. These women are so blessed to have the opportunity to earn money for their families. Your work has made this possible.

   I LOVE Ellie’s hair. I want to do Laila’s hair like that. So cute!!
   Laura

4. Can’t wait to help with this precious woman’s new home. God is so good to us all.

5. Hello Julie,

   Thank you for sharing this story, and thank you Jumbo for posting it too! I couldn’t imagine what these women go through each and every day. I have to say they bless me more than I could ever bless them. I would love to help out any way I can!

   Continued blessings…
   :)shelley

6. So glad to hear that God’s people are working on this woman’s behalf. I’m posting it at my blog, on fb, and will pray that God’s provision will overflow on Jabulile’s behalf. Please tell her that so many are praying for her and help is on the way!

7. wow. i am sending a big hug your way, and all the Go’Go’s for that matter. Your words are like string intruments playing the tune of the heart of God. thanks for sharing.

   miss you.

   mv

9. LOVE IT!!! You are the best missionary-letter writer in the world. We miss you.

10. These are such great stories and pictures! It’s so heartwarming for us to know how much you’ve done to help these ladies provide for themselves and their families and at the same time, very encouraging that they, in turn, help their friends and sisters in need. It’s evident that the Lord is working through you to enrich and bless their lives.

    We love the “Ellie and Easter” story and pictures! We’re getting very anxious to hear her stories in person! Miss you both so much!
    Love, Dad & Mom